Of choices
Of level playing field
And Material Pleasures

When people try to figure what I like and not, I try to give them hard run for their money, after all it is my life. What’s worse is they cannot ask me! It is important to understand that you can only choose from options. If options are not presented or given, there may be no choice, unless you assume that there is a choice to be made. I guess people make lot of assumptions from what they observe and more assumptions than they think others are making. When you watch someone or observe, you are inevitably forcing yourself to assume the genesis of his or her action. Here is where you are prone to make a mistake – when you try to quantify the relative importance of various things in the other person’s life.
For example - It would be just like that you may like certain things in life but it may not be so that you turn that particular thing in your career. And you may not be able to know that until I tell you that. It may change as well.
Also if you have spent significant time to analyze someone’s actions and still not able to arrive at the decision about his or her liking, there may be two things. Either you don’t want to accept that as a truth or you are not confident about your syllogistic reasoning.
Of level playing field
At the end of the day, we all are looking for a level playing field. No one wants to start the race when a competitor has a significant jumpstart. I am not sure if there is anyone who would put in effort when he is destined to fail. The thought of failure does not inspire, it does not spring hope. And if I am only being chided for trying umpteen times, it is very likely I will not be trying for it again. Didn’t you teach me that?
And Material Pleasures
The idea of swapping material pleasures of life with human love does seem enticing and if you are able to do that, I guess you should go ahead with it. It is not necessarily my thought but I definitely would not like to be compared with the material pleasures of life, just because I am a being. I will tell you this; I have very well got my preferences figured out in my mind. If you ask me & why, I will tell you or else go figure.